Different is Good

Date: 11/12/2009
Author: Frank Elder

Why do we allow small differences to come between us all the time? We know we are each different, we are each “individuals”. So even knowing that, why do we allow ourselves to be so unable or unwilling to accept differences in others?

It’s something that has been going on forever and half a day. Having issue with others due to their differences seems to be the norm, the status quo, for so many people. Is that because they are so short sighted? Was this the way they were raised, and know no different? Is it because of some sort of genetic marker that makes us human, that we can not accept others and their differences?

I don’t know if there really is an easy answer to these questions. But what I do know is that we have to change. And I am not naive enough to think that it is something that can happen overnight, and without great sacrifice and tribulation.

Until we can look at one another and get over the fact that the other person is a different color, speaks a different language, wears different clothes, has different sexual preferences etc…, we only hamper and stagnate our growth as human beings.

We have forgotten what a wonderful treasure it is to be different. And it is a treasure because it is what makes us successful, it is what makes us resilient and gives us the ability to overcome obstacles that are put in front of us on a daily basis. It is what makes us who we are.

So, I guess what I am getting at is this. Cherish the differences in others, look for the positives, and help bolster that which is good in those around you. And know that the differences that make you unique and who you are should be cherished as well. Be yourself.

~ Frank Elder